THE husband of ex-Department of Homeland Security Secretary Kristi Noem told a fetish model lover he wanted to transition to a busty woman named Crystal, according to a bombshell report.

Bryon Noem reportedly gushed about wanting to leave his wife and start a new life with left wing dominatrix Shy Sotomayo, graphic phone conversations and text messages reveal.

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On March 31, a bombshell report lifted the lid on Bryon’s secret second life in the online bimbofication community – which sees women surgically blowing up their breasts and butt to look like dolls.

He had a years-long relationship with a fetish model – and at one point sent her selfies of himself wearing women’s clothing with balloons shoved underneath his shirt, the Daily Mail reported.

Now, the busty model has unmasked herself and shared bizarre text exchanges which show Noem confessing his own desires to go under the knife.

During an impassioned exchange on January 11, he told Sotomayor, “I want to be a Crystal so bad,” according to screenshots she gave to the Daily Mail.

“I want to be a woman so bad,” he wrote.

Noem said he wanted to “be your trans girl” and insisted he wished to get surgery to have long hair, big lips, and massive breasts, the messages reveal.

“I’ll make you the prettiest trans girl ever,” responded Sotomayor.

Other messages and recorded phone conversations reveal Noem blasting wife Kristi to the model and yearning to go public with their relationship.

In one phone conversation, Sotomayor could be heard saying, “So much better than your wife, aren’t I?”

“You’re so much better,” Noem responded.

“I can see us leaving out spouses for each other,” he later said.

In another chat, Noem dreamed about taking the model out on dates to ritzy restaurants in New York City.

“I don’t give a f**k,” he told her in the conversation.

“Not even if you got recognized?” she responded.

“I don’t care. You know what I want? To be seen with you,” he said.

“I don’t give a f**k about anything else. It’s time we be seen together,” he continued.

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Sotomayor and Noem first met online in 2016 when she was 21 after he reached out to her through Twitter, she claimed to the Daily Mail.

They chatted through an adult entertainment app where he paid by the minute to speak on the phone and see her pose in tight clothing, the outlet reported.

Sotomayor, who identified as left wing, said she learned about Noem’s identity – and confronted him about it three days after Renee Good was killed by an Immigration and Customs Enforcement agent.

“Do you care that I know,” Sotomayor said.

He responded, “It doesn’t matter. I don’t love the fact that you know who I am, but it is what it is.”

“I think it makes it more fun,” she said.

But eventually, Sotomayor said Noem’s affiliations with DHS and neediness for attention started to weigh on her.

On March 22, he reached out to her to speak on the phone, but she refused after silently vowing to cut ties.

“I needed to set some boundaries and just take care of myself,” she told the Daily Mail.

“I’ve had moments when I’m wondering how did this become my life. I just never thought I would be the mistress to ICE.”

Noem hasn’t spoken publicly since the Daily Mail first reported on his bimbo fetish – but a spokesperson for wife Kristi said the new “devastated” her.

“The family was blindsided by this. They ask for privacy and prayers at this time,” the spokesperson previously said.

The U.S. Sun has reached out to Noem for comment.